I have seen these awesome ART database demos with both Coldfusion 7/Flex 2, and
an updated Coldfusion 8/Flex 3. I thought these were really cool and I wanted
to try them. I created a vritual machine of Windows XP SP2, installed
ColdFusion 8 as a developer license. I then installed Flex 3 and tried to
create several different types of projects. I tried coldfusion as a server
technology, and it found the local server just fine. I tried both Web and AIR
projects. But everything I try, I do not have the Coldfusion Wizard option
under File/New/Other. Anyone have any ideas on what I need to do? I thought
everything was done for me with Coldfusion 8/Flex 3.

You have to install the extensions. Start here: http://livedocs.adobe.com/coldfusion...wizards_2.html